ok, whoever in their not-so-right mind said being a mom was easy has obviously never tried it, especially being a stay-at-home mom ... contrary to popular belief (and as I've said before) we who choose and are able to stay home with our precious children do NOT eat bon-bons, drink champagne, and watch "Oprah." At all. Most likely and most every single day we change a million diapers, remove our child's fingers from our nostrils for the millionth time, show her that yes, we, too have a belly button but maybe mommy doesn't want to show everyone in the allergy shot waiting room her tummy, go to the bathroom with a small audience if you count all my girls, do laundry, do dishes, and wonder why our neighbor doesn't cut his grass. (ok, that last one was personal.) Nope, being a mom is sort of like what I imagine being a soldier is like, minus the IED's, snipers (who knew they could hit you from a mile away?) and constant fear of death. And this mom only has one child. And we're doing IVF why? Oh, right, for those moments when your child gives you a hug out of the blue, calls you "Mommy" and wants to be picked up and held when they're scared. Plus most days it's just fun. And a miracle. Ah, motherhood ...